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What is cupid?
cupid is an anonymous matchmaking bot for Discord. You fill in one application, get a private cupid# handle, and chat with compatible people without showing your real username until both of you agree to swap.
How do I start?
Run /application to apply and get your private handle. Once your application is complete, run /find match to find someone compatible.
Is it really anonymous?
Yes. Everyone sees your cupid# handle and your application answers - never your username, ID, or avatar. Usernames swap only after both people run /user reveal.
What if I change my mind?
Run /cancel match. The match closes, nothing is revealed, and you can look again straight away.
What is match scope?
Scope decides who you can be matched with. Admins set the server default with /setup search scope - inside the server only, or across every server cupid is in. You can narrow it for yourself with /search scope.
What does cupid store?
Your application answers, your handle, and your match history. cupid does not read or store messages outside the commands you run. Ask in the support server to have your data deleted.
Where do I get help?
Join the support server linked in the footer. To flag someone, use /report and staff will review the handle.